You will know when it's right for you. If you still need time to recover from a setback, it is the same thing as injuring yourself when learning a new skill like swordplay. Heal, and get back at it.

[ he won't encourage her to run away forever but emotional processing takes time or whatever (scien is still a psychopath) ]

Good.

How do you want to go back? As yourself? Or do you think it'll be disruptive to your... lifestream?

[ he's trying to remember all your fantasy terms ]